|
|
Post by allenalansing64 on Jan 16, 2008 10:57:19 GMT -5
 Well here is my dilemma. How do you really know when it is over? I have been in a relationship for over 6 years. Even got married last year. My husband tends to go back and forth with his emotions. One day he loves me the next he wants it over. He did promise that he would love me and never leave me. Well, one day he does the next he doesn't. If there is anyone out there that is going through the same thing or have any advice i really would appreciate because i don't know if i am coming or going, i don't even know who i am anymore.
|
|
|
|
Post by sabreinc on Jan 16, 2008 11:50:52 GMT -5
Sorry to hear your in denial. You should really get some counseling.
Go back to the main page i think there is a site it will send you to.
Come join me in my singles group, i bet that will perk you up a bit. Don't let any man bring you down!
|
|
|
|
Post by Myla on Jan 16, 2008 12:03:27 GMT -5
Men often mirror the moods and emotional state of the woman he is with, take a look in the mirror. Ha-Ha, just kidding, a counselor actually said this to me once. My response, men seem to be awfully simplistic and if what you were saying was true, then he should be putty in my hands and easily shaped however I see fit... or more importantly feel fit. Doesn't work that way though. I think men are just stubborn and feel trapped by relationships in general and can't communicate their feelings well at all. It's a huge snowball effect, things just get worse until it's to late to stop it.
|
|
|
|
Post by nalmum on Jan 17, 2008 16:03:55 GMT -5
Relationships would be so much simpler if men learned to open up and women learned to shut up!!!! Think about it, one of the biggest complaints in a relationship is that women wish their men would "open up and communicate and express their feelings", where men wished that women wouldn't ask them to open up and communicate..it's not in their nature!! Don't believe me, watch a bunch of women get together and see how much they talk.....then watch a group of men....they hardly talk at all. Most of their "male socializing" involves activities that don't include much communication with each other.....they just yell at the tv!!!!
If men would just talk a bit more to their significant other and women would expect their men to talk less then I think that everyone would be happier!!!
|
|
Well here is my dilemma. How do you really know when it is over? I have been in a relationship for over 6 years. Even got married last year. My husband tends to go back and forth with his emotions. One day he loves me the next he wants it over.
